Being Grateful: Forty-Ninth Edition

Hey everyone! I’m back with our weekly post featuring the things I’ve been grateful for this week. I hope you’re ready to join in, as there’s a lot!

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Our engagement

Obviously, I have to list this one first. =) If you missed my announcement on Monday, R decided to propose this past Sunday as we were hiking in the mountains surrounding Asheville. It goes without saying that I am being grateful he finally popped the question!

No, I’m only kidding (or am I?). Apparently he had been trying to think of ways to propose since August or so, but he couldn’t settle on a good one. He was afraid of disappointing me. I felt bad after hearing that!

I have to be honest and say I wasn’t completely surprised for a few reasons – one being that we’ve been talking about marriage for the past year, and two, I figured the day trip would be a good opportunity for it. It only crossed my mind for a second, though, and as the day wore on, I didn’t think it was going to happen!

Family & friends

I was overwhelmed at the outpouring of support we received upon announcing the news via Facebook (of course, so classy). We Being Grateful 49 | Journey to Savingtold my parents first, and then let the cat out of the bag (even though she’s in a bag here).

It made me so happy to see others happy for our happiness (woo), and I loved reading all of the comments on Monday’s post!

I have to admit, though, it is times like these where I really miss everyone back home. I know if we were still there, we would probably be going over my grandma’s house this weekend, having dinner with everyone. We probably would have went out to celebrate with our friends, and we might be making plans for an engagement party.

Instead, we’re here just celebrating with ourselves, no plans for parties except a pity party joking, joking. We’re visiting my parents this weekend!

Our trip

I’m also really grateful that we decided to take the day trip. At the beginning of the month, I wasn’t sure if our budget would really allow for it, but we ended up spending next to nothing (except for gas), and we had a great time.

R used to run in the mountains back when he was on the cross country team in college, and he got a little nostalgic being “back in nature.” It was refreshing, and both of us would really like to travel to more state parks in the area.

Being Grateful 49 | Journey to SavingMy parents were not the outdoorsy type, so growing up, I didn’t get to experience the joys of hiking, or even parks. Now that the weather has finally gotten cooler, I think we’ll take advantage of the fact we’re only an hour or two away from some fantastic places.

My mom has a job!

You might recall that I posted last week about my mom’s interview. It turns out, she got the job! So she is officially out of retirement and back to being busy. Her first day was yesterday and she really enjoyed it. Her coworkers are all very nice and pleasant, and apparently really enjoy baking, as their break room was filled with sweets. Thank goodness I don’t work there!

My plan for this visit is to get them set on a budget, which they both agreed to! I’m definitely not forcing anything on them. I’m grateful they’re willing to listen to my advice, because the income my mom will be bringing in can all go toward debt.

We’re basically going to be formulating a debt payoff plan for them, as well as figuring out where their spending leaks are. My mom was too funny, saying she doesn’t spend on anything outside of groceries (not true based on daily talks I have with her!). They don’t track their spending as they only use cash, so I’m going to try to get them into the habit of doing that.

Instagram challenge

I don’t know if any of you have heard of Create As Folk, but for the month of November, Laura (the founder) is hosting an Instagram challenge called #thedailybon. It’s focused on being grateful, so I thought it would be perfect for me to join in! If you’d like to join as well, or follow along, then add me on instagram – @journeytosaving.

I’m looking forward to being reminded on a daily basis to seek gratitude in the small things. While I write these weekly posts, it’s often after a whirlwind of a week, and I could do better in enjoying the present moment.

What are you being grateful for this week? Have you enjoyed nature lately? 

Day Trip to Asheville Recap (Plus a Surprise!)

Day Trip to Asheville | Journey to SavingHi everyone! I hope you all enjoyed your weekend. I know I did, which is why I couldn’t wait to update you guys on what happened!

If you’re dying to know what the surprise is, just scroll down. =) Otherwise, enjoy my recap of our trip to Asheville, our adventures with hiking, and pretty pictures. I’ll be trying to get together a slide show of all the pictures we took.

South Mountains State Park

I referenced a handy map from this website to see where waterfalls were located around Asheville. I’m a complete sucker for how beautiful and majestic they are, and was excited to see there were quite a few!

Some parks required admission, so I searched around to find ones without entry fees. This was supposed to be a frugal day trip, after all! I was not disappointed upon finding South Mountains State Park. It was a little over an hour to get to, which broke our trip up nicely.

We headed out at around 9:30am, and I was giddy with excitement as the weather had cooperated nicely. It was cool and there wasn’t a cloud in the sky. It was the perfect day to explore nature.

We arrived around 11, and found the park to be mostly empty. There were only a few other people going up to see the falls. The website had classified this as an easy hike, but I have to disagree. I don’t have much to compare it to as my hiking experience is severely limited, but my legs were getting numb after climbing so many stairs! Even R was breaking a sweat.

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High Schoals Falls!

It was all worth it, though. This is what we were greeted with:

After that, R wanted to explore further, so I let him run ahead while I took a break. I slowly caught up to him, and we stopped for a drink and some snacks. He told me that it looked as though the trail got easier up ahead, so I trudged along.

I’m really glad I did, as there was still more to see. Thankfully there were no more stairs – I don’t know why, but I prefer dirt, even rocks, to the stairs we encountered.

Going down was still difficult, though, as it was pretty steep, and I kept gaining too much momentum. There were times R had to hold me back as he was afraid I’d fall. I kept telling him, “I can’t stop, I can’t stop! Wee!” He wasn’t amused, having had his fair share of trip-ups while running in the mountains before.

Downtown Asheville

Eventually, we made it out, and saw a few really cute dogs along the way (dogs make my day, along with waterfalls). Our rough plan was to get to Asheville and walk around. Normally, I have a list of things I want to check out, but I felt like going with the flow this time.

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St. Lawrence Basilica

Unfortunately, that didn’t work out too well. We stopped for lunch, and made it to Asheville around 3:45. The best thing we learned: parking is free on Sundays. That was great, as we didn’t have much change on us!

We wandered around for a bit, but R wasn’t really feeling up to it for some reason. In his attempt to explain it to me, he said something about getting used to wandering around in the woods with no one around, and not adjusting back to city-life. The streets were bustling with a decent amount of people, and there wasn’t enough space to walk side-by-side most of the time.

Perhaps this is just downtown Asheville. Either way, I really liked it, and I hope we can go back just to explore the city. Trying to fit in hiking and sightseeing might have been too ambitious.

Catawba Falls

Given R’s blahness, I mentioned I had seen another set of trails not too far away. We would be going back toward Charlotte, so we agreed to stop and check it out on the way.

It was quite the adventure! You actually have to wade in some water and cross a few rocks at the beginning, and we got our feet soaked with really cold water.

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Catawba Falls – where the trail stopped.

We were a little disappointed, though. I’m not sure if we went wrong somewhere (although there was just one straight path!), but according to the website I read, it was 1.5 miles to a waterfall from the entrance.

We walked, and walked…and walked. We reached something, but it certainly wasn’t the waterfall that was depicted on the site. There was a lower and upper falls, so we thought that maybe we just needed to go on a bit further.

Eventually, we wanted to give up. It was nearing 6pm, and the sun would start setting around 7. We didn’t want to get so far in that it would take forever to get out. While we both really wanted a nice payoff from continuing on, we at least got to see pretty mini-waterfalls.

Surprise!

And well, the payoff did end up coming, actually.

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My grandma’s engagement ring that she passed down to us.

R proposed! 

Shortly after we agreed to take a further look down the trail, we found a tiny path leading out to a huge rock overlooking the trails and river. While I was busy taking pictures, R pulled out the ring from the backpack.

I turned around and he was waiting on one knee.

Obviously, I said yes. =D

Looks like my grandma’s nudging worked. ;)

I wish I had a better story than that, but truthfully, it doesn’t feel as though anything has changed. R and I have been living together for over a year now, we’ve combined our finances, we’ve been acting similarly to a married couple, and this was just the next step waiting to happen. We both agreed to wait until after we moved and got settled in, and from there, R has been waiting for the right time.

I preemptively wrote a post on what my affordable dream wedding would look like, so you can have a look at that for now. I have no other news to report, as we’re not really in a rush, and have no clue what year we want to get married in, let alone month. But as we get the details ironed out, I’ll be sure to let you know. Just don’t hold me to any wedding updates until at least next year!

So that was my weekend! On Saturday we celebrated R’s birthday with some cheesecake and fettuccine alfredo (his favorites). We’ll be going out to eat tonight in celebration, as we didn’t spend much on our trip to Asheville aside from gas.

I think it’s safe to say we have a new hobby now! I’d love to go back to new trails in a few weeks, as the fall foliage was lacking due to a rainstorm earlier last week. The leaves are supposed to be turning then.

What’s your favorite part about hiking? What other frugal fall activities have you partaken in so far? Share your proposal story with us! 

Being Grateful: Forty-Eighth Edition

Hey everyone! I’m here yet again with your weekly reminder to be grateful. =) Let’s get right to it.

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Trip!

While it isn’t the weekend getaway we were hoping for, we decided to take a day trip to Asheville. Everyone has been telling me how beautiful it is, so I didn’t want to miss out!

We are celebrating R’s birthday and our anniversary, after all. I am really bad at celebrating things, and it looks like our budget will be okay, so we’re going for it.

Our loose plans are to do some hiking. Most of the leaves here are still green, so I’m hoping Asheville offers some nice fall foliage. If you have any tips for beginner hikers, please let me know! We’re looking at easy trails, so I don’t think we’ll need anything too crazy.

We’ll be going tomorrow as we both decided to stay up until 3am. Oops. You guys already know I’m a night owl! If you’d like to follow along and see pretty pictures, I’ll probably be posting some of them to social media.

My grandma

Being Grateful: 48th Edition | Journey to SavingI know I haven’t mentioned her lately, so I figured I would throw this in. My grandma has always treated R like family, so it was no surprise when he received a birthday card from her. The way she signed it had us both chuckling (see the picture). She has been dropping some not-so-subtle hints lately!

I found out after everything happened, but she was in the hospital yet again this past weekend. For some reason, doctors are giving her medication that isn’t reacting well with her blood pressure medication, and this is causing her to get light headed. Of course, she panics, and heads to the hospital. I’m really hoping she brings this up whenever someone wants to prescribe her new medication, as I’d hate for it to happen again.

She’s also tentatively planning on visiting for about a month at the beginning of the year! So she’ll be a very temporary snowbird. We’re not sure of the exact dates yet, but I have been thinking of having everyone in the family chip in $50 toward a flight for her, which should cover it.

Mentions

I have to stick this in. An unusual amount of people shared my posts this week, which I’m both really excited and grateful about. It’s always nice to know that people are enjoying your writing.

Briefly: Lauren at The Write Budget mentioned my Blog Tour post; DC at Young Adult Money and Claire from ReadyforZero both shared my Unexpected Expenses post; Natalie from Financegirl shared my post on Young Adult Money about How to Discuss Finances in a Relationship Early On; and lastly, my guest post at Debt Deb’s featuring 7 Financial Lessons Learned from My Parents’ Debt was picked up by The Globe and Mail! So I’m very grateful that Debs let me guest post on her blog. =)

Job prospects for my mom

Even though my parents are technically retired, my mom likes to keep busy, or she finds herself randomly shopping at Walmart for no reason. True story – Walmart is 2 minutes away from their house – very dangerous.

Considering the holiday season is fast approaching, many stores are hiring, and she decided to try for a retail job after spending months looking for an office job. While it’s only minimum wage, she has decided she’ll be happy just having something to do. At the very least, it should help them put extra toward debt, so I hope that something works out for her.

She had a decent interview on Friday, and has to go back in on Monday. Fingers crossed!

Weather

Being Grateful #48 | Journey to SavingIt has finally stayed in the 70s for the most part, and I’ve been enjoying it! R and I have been taking walks around our complex when he gets home at night, and the past few nights have been rather chilly. So much so, I’ve taken to wearing my hoodies. I am therefore being grateful for hoodie worthy weather. Catchy, isn’t it?

I’m ultimately hoping that we can turn off the AC once and for all this coming week. When I woke up yesterday, it was 74 degrees inside, but it slowly crept back up to 78, which is when the AC kicks on. Sigh. Why is consistency so hard to ask for!?

Relaxing weekends

I was really grateful that R and I had a relaxing weekend last week. R has been going into work on Saturday a decent amount, but he decided not to go in, so we pretty much did nothing.

For whatever reason, I always end up unhappy with this decision. I know the weekends are meant for relaxing, but I hate feeling unproductive! Does anyone else feel this way? I don’t necessarily have to be working, but R likes to do absolutely nothing and enjoy his time off, whereas I get restless.

That’s about all I have for this week! I’d love it if you guys could offer any suggestions or feedback you have for the videos. I’d like to start incorporating more into them, and it would help if I knew what you guys wanted to see. I’m thinking of uploading a few short videos on random money thoughts, and not posting them on the blog. Let me know!

What are you being grateful for this week? Have any fun plans for the weekend? Do you enjoy hiking?